打开您的权力,通过承诺和同余

打开您的权力,通过承诺和同余

每个人都可以讲一个很酷的想法,他们已经有:“哦,我还以为那年他们推出了它。” 但并非所有人都使得他们的观念发生。 任何形式的突破需要承诺一个较高的水平。

当你遇见谁承诺的人,你可以感觉到它。 他们体现了他们的内线他们的视野。 心脏, ,并 都是 全等对齐。 即使他们没有外接电源(如财富或政治影响力),你可以感受到他们的内在动力。

作为全等和车削谈成城

我们体现了我们的想法,可能和故事的越多,更多的人会觉得我们是一致的。 当我们是一致的,我们把思想从下我们 ,到我们的 心脏 。 每间曰:“YES! 会出现这种情况。“

我们把谈话变成步行路程。 我们生活,我们爱的可能性。 我们觉得他们,他们的行为,他们的呼吸,发挥他们。 当我们是一致的,我们的权力是练成我们的神经系统,我们是谁的一部分。 我们不必 记得 要着火了。 我们刚刚 着火。

有可能仍然怀疑和恐惧的时刻。 但他们是例外,不再是规则。 当我们开发 全等,我们发现,我们的力量,力量感影响的现实,电力通指数上升突破。

从一个伟大的想法转变为现实活下来

随着承诺和谐,我们从一个伟大的想法转变为突破口,一个生活现实。 即使还没有完全在世界上发生过, 我们像它已经发生在我们里面。 这是当我们打破了会发生什么。 这是在我们木已成舟。 这只是一个时间问题,它在世界上发生之前。 有没有办法我们的愿景不会发生,至少在某种形式或其他(它看起来如何做时,尽可能做到与宇宙,因为它是我们)。

人们可以在你感觉到这一点。 将网络中的人,你买股票? 如果你不认为他们会。 。 。 然后有更多的突破做才能爆发。

打破= - 洞察+创意+承诺同余

承诺不断甚至当你(在害怕或已耗尽部分)的部分可能要关掉开关。 承诺把你拉回一致性,每当你得到的反应还是防守。 当你的承诺 - 当你已经体现你的突破,​​而且是免费的内心冲突 - 人们愿意相信你。 这是权力的本质。

Commitment is the only thing that will get you past the inevitable blockages and obstacles along the way. Scan inside you now.

  • Are you thriving . . . or merely thinking about it?
  • Can you shout across the rooftops, with total resolve, ‘I am ready for this!’?
  • Are you ready, right now . . . or getting ready to be ready?

If you hear a big YES! to these questions, perhaps with a deep, guttural ooompphh in your core, it means you are committed.

If you hear an ‘UMMM . . .’ or a ‘NOT YET’ that is totally OK. There is no morality here, no good or bad. However, it does mean there is something within that will get in the way. You have some incongruence, and it will show up in the way you act, speak, and feel. It may be that it’s not the right time; that the vision isn’t the right one for you; or that you have some fear within.

Better to wait until everything is aligned before you commit fully and publicly, as opposed to commit and then let yourself and others down. Take your time before you make your move. There is no rush. When you leap, leap fully.

Avoiding Commitment?

Notice how often we use words like ‘maybe,’ ‘might’, and ‘try’ to avoid commitment. Phrases like these pepper our everyday language. They ensure that we have a way out, in case things don’t go quite as we’d planned. They keep us uncommitted and so disempowered. When we commit, we remove any back door that might allow us to do a runner. We shut down any wiggle room that can help us avoid response-ability.

Nobody can be half-committed. We are either ON or OFF. When the Spanish conquistador Hernán Cortés landed and claimed Mexico in the 16th century, he encountered the rumblings of a mutiny. To give his soldiers no choice but to press on, Cortés ordered all the ships to be scuttled. There was no retreat. All they could do was keep going.

What would it be like to burn the boats that you use to take you back to your comfort zone?

Commitment is incendiary. It smolders away, free from the doubt that quenches flames. There are no question marks. No ‘probablies.’ No ‘one days.’ There is just absolute certainty throughout our body.mind. The dials are all tuned up.

Beware of Attachment to Results

Commitment has a catch though. We can get so focused on what we want to create that, if it doesn’t happen, we become disappointed and upset. We get attached to the results, not the journey of discovery.

One of life’s greatest challenges is to remain full of resolve yet totally at peace if things don’t go the way we planned. If our Tiny Me starts to worry about whether we will look good or feel happy, we will begin to get ‘grippy.’ Power leaks. We immediately lose some of our flexibility, our flow, and may well try to control things. We may start to control others too. This undermines our ability to flex with the moment and spot new possibilities. We have flipped from being driven by love (i.e. purpose) to being driven by lack. We’re back in the Survival Trip. Eek!

Instead of focusing on the 水果 of our labors, focus on the that ripens the fruit. In the place of results, focus on intentions. You can be resolved to make stuff happen, and yet at peace with whatever the outcomes are.

You don’t need a result to feel good; you feel good from the start. Your actions and projects are 礼品 of love to the Great We, not attempts to get love.

Once we accept that we are co-creators of life, with life, we can gracefully take ownership of all our commitments and yet be relaxed if things go awry because, ultimately, we can’t control everything.

We live in a complex, adaptive system, which promotes adaptation and learning. We cannot second-guess why some things don’t work out. It may have been to teach us something, or stimulate someone else in the system to expand. All we can do is switch on to any lack of integrity, congruence, or commitment in our body.mind, tune ourselves up, and keep on growing.

The truly powerful are those whose feelings (), thoughts (), and actions (HANDS) are in alignment with their true purpose, who power up whenever they feel powerless, tune up when they feel out of sorts, and are totally committed to a result yet free of grippiness. We dance like the mighty oak in a storm, without ever losing our ground.

SWITCH ON TO POWER

We're Switched Off when power comes from outside. When we get respect and money, we have it. When we have power, we can control people and nature, and so manipulate them to ensure our needs are met.

When We're Switched On, power comes from within and we are connected to ourselves and the universe. As we align our emotions, beliefs, and actions within, we develop integrity of intention, word, and deed. This congruence empowers us and attracts support. When we commit, we engage the full power of our being into making things happen. We lose power when we self-sabotage.

SWITCH ON NOW

Right now, get your Connector into the mix. Breathe. Relax. Maybe close your eyes for a second while you choose to switch on.

HEART: Remember the last time you felt powerful and masterful. How did it feel? Flood your body with that feeling and amplify it to the max.

Imagine being like this all the time.

Can you offer an idea or project that you are committed to, back to the Big U as a form of devotion?

As you do, can you feel yourself release any needs or expectations . . . leaving a sense of peace with whatever happens?

Enjoy the feeling of raw power it brings.

HEAD: Can you declare to the universe that you are ready to make change happen without hesitation or provisos? Can you exclaim, right now, that you are the person you need to be to have the things you want to have?

If not, can you switch on to be that person?

Develop some Switch Statements that help you build new powers. Say them now, feeling empowering emotions explode inside.

HANDS: Identify a few people in your network (family, friends, colleagues, connections) that you can share your ideas and commitments with.

Are you committed enough to ask for their help? Can you allow yourself to accept support?

If appropriate, make an agreement with them about what you or they are going to do next to keep things happening. Do whatever you can, with compassion, to ensure that the agreement is honored.

Breakthrough Questions

What would Mahatma Gandhi/Nelson Mandela/Yoda [choose a person or character who inspires power and commitment] feel and then do now to bring this idea to life?

If I devoted this project to humanity as a gift of love, what would it feel like and what would I do next to progress it?

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